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Can't You See My Inner Cry?

Updated: Aug 26, 2023

Healing and Empowerment with Biblical Wisdom for the Overlooked Woman.


In the depths of our hearts, we often experience moments when our pain feels unseen and our struggles unheard to the world around us. The agony and weight of rejection, abandonment, and the sensation of being invisible can be overwhelming. In times like these, we yearn for solace and a sense of empowerment. Turning to the timeless wisdom of the Bible, we can discover the strength that heals and uplifts. Let's explore how biblical verses illuminate a path to overcoming the anguish of being ignored and overlooked.

The Power of Tears

Tears, those silent messengers of the heart, possess a power that transcends words. In their shimmering cascade, emotions find a voice that words often fail to capture. Like raindrops upon a parched land, tears cleanse the soul, washing away the burdens that linger. They are not signs of weakness but manifestations of our strength—the capacity to feel deeply and connect with the intricate tapestry of our humanity. Each teardrop holds a story, a reflection of our joys and sorrows, woven into the fabric of our existence. They carry the weight of our unspoken prayers, the whispers of our dreams, and the echoes of our vulnerabilities. In their glistening embrace, we discover a sacred communion with ourselves and the world, a reminder that our hearts are alive and beating with the rhythms of life's symphony.

So, Let the tears flow!!!

There are moments when the wellspring of emotions prompts tears to flow gently. I've sometimes allowed these tears to trace their path, finding solace, healing, and a sense of therapeutic release in their tender journey. In our current time, the landscape can often seem saturated with exhortations but lacking in sincere connection. Amid this backdrop, the experience of having countless "anointed" individuals around without perceiving the depths of your inner cry can be profoundly disheartening. Yet, in the midst of feeling concealed and overshadowed, I hold the conviction that these instances, orchestrated by God, beckon us into more intimate communion with Him. These moments, seemingly unnoticed, may in fact, be the catalysts designed to draw us closer to the sacred embrace of God's presence.

Amid internal turmoil and the emotional weight of experiencing rejection and neglect, I present three substantial strategies designed to guide you on a path of healing and empowerment.

1. The Promise of God's Presence for the Brokenhearted

Psalm 34:18 (KJV): "The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saves such as be of a contrite spirit."

One of the most powerful assurances in times of inner turmoil is the promise of God's constant presence. The above verse reminds us that even when it feels like no one understands our pain, God is intimately aware of our struggles. The Creator of the universe sees our tears and hears our cries. Knowing that we are not invisible to Him can bring immense comfort and healing.

When you feel cast aside, and your inner cry seems unheard, remember that the Lord is near to those whose hearts are shattered. He sees your pain and is ready to save you from the depths of despair. This verse reminds us that God's presence offers comfort and restoration even in our moments of greatest vulnerability.

Strategy 1: Prayer and Reflection

Draw near in prayer amid your inner turmoil; turn to prayer. Pour out your heart before God, expressing your deepest emotions. In the quiet of prayer, allow His comforting presence to envelop you, reminding you that you are not alone in your struggle. Remember that the Divine sees and loves you, regardless of how others perceive you.

Go ahead and cry out to Him.

2. Embracing Your Identity in Christ; His Unfailing Love

Isaiah 49:15 (KJV): "Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? Yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee."

Feeling invisible and insignificant can wound deeply. Feeling overlooked can erode our sense of worth and identity. However, this verse reassures us that even if human love were to fail, God's love remains steadfast and unchanging. He compares His love to a mother's bond with her child, emphasizing His unwavering care. In the eyes of God, we are precious and valued beyond measure.

Isaiah 43:4 (NIV) beautifully expresses this truth: "Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life." God's love for us is immeasurable, and the opinions or actions of others do not define our worth.

Embrace Your Tears

Strategy 2: Affirmations and Scripture Memorization Combat feelings of invisibility with positive affirmations rooted in Scripture.

Meditate on God's Love Reflect on the depth of God's love for you. Remind yourself daily of your identity as a beloved child of God. Consider the imagery of a mother's love and apply it to your relationship with the Father. Remind yourself daily that His love is constant and eternal, banishing feelings of insignificance. Memorize verses that reinforce your worth in His eyes and speak to them aloud whenever self-doubt takes hold.

3. Transforming Pain into Purpose

Regrettably, this expression has been commodified and utilized as a clichéd means to capitalize on personal suffering. While it holds a certain degree of truth regarding the potential to derive financial gains from one's pain, the primary objective in this context is to prioritize the process of soulful healing. Romans 8:28 (KJV): "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."

The pain of rejection and invisibility can become a catalyst for transformation and offer growth and purpose. This verse teaches us that even our darkest moments can be woven into a greater purpose. God can use our struggles to shape us and bring about positive change. Your pain can be the foundation for a testimony that inspires and encourages others facing similar struggles.

Strategy 3: Seek God's Purpose. Shift your perspective by seeking the purpose behind your pain. Allow your experiences to propel you toward growth and empowerment. You can inspire others who face similar challenges through service and sharing your journey. Seek community and service by connecting with individuals who share similar experiences and offer support. Engage in acts of service that align with your passions and talents. As you reach out to others who may be hurting, you'll find that your pain can be a source of strength for both you and those around you.

Every Tear Has Purpose

My Final Thoughts:

At times, one may find oneself drawn to tears as a means of emotional expression. Personally, I have found that allowing these tears to flow freely can be a source of solace, healing, and catharsis. In our contemporary context, it is not uncommon to encounter a proliferation of well-intentioned advice without the corresponding depth of genuine connection.

This can lead to a sense of profound disappointment when surrounded by individuals held in high esteem, yet one's inner struggles remain unseen. However, I believe such instances of perceived invisibility are perhaps orchestrated by a higher design to foster a deeper alignment with the divine. Despite the sensation of being overlooked, these occasions may serve as a divine invitation to cultivate a more intimate relationship with our Father.

Amid our inner cries and feelings of being overlooked, the healing power of Scripture and the presence of God offer solace and hope. Through prayer, embracing our identity in Christ, and transforming pain into purpose, we can find the strength to overcome the pain of rejection and abandonment.

Remember, you are valued, cherished, and destined for a purpose beyond your current circumstances. Your inner cry can lead to a journey of healing, empowerment, and a deeper connection with the Father, so, don’t stop crying and running to one who bottles your tears and remembers you.

Your inner cry is not in vain—it can lead to a journey of healing and empowerment that transforms your life and the lives of others. As you draw near in prayer, meditate on His love, and embrace His purpose for your life, you'll find the strength to rise above the pain of rejection and invisibility.

So, Let the tears flow, and lead you into the loving arms of the Father, the only one who really understands your inner cry.

Embrace The Inner Cry

Blessings to you,


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